The Book of Ephesians: Week 9
Ephesians 5:21-33
Context
Paul continues his teaching on living as Spirit-filled believers. Here, he applies it to relationships, especially marriage. He begins with the principle of mutual submission out of reverence for Christ (v. 21), then describes the distinct roles of wives and husbands. Paul calls wives to respect their husbands and husbands to love their wives sacrificially, modeling the relationship between Christ and the church.
Read the Passage: Ephesians 5:21–33
Discussion Questions:
Understanding the Passage
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Why do you think Paul begins this section with the principle of mutual submission (v. 21)?
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How does Paul describe the role of wives in relation to their husbands (vv. 22–24)?
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What does Paul say husbands are called to do for their wives (vv. 25–30)?
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How is the relationship between Christ and the church the model for marriage?
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What is the “mystery” Paul refers to in verse 32?
Personal Reflection & Application
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How does the principle of mutual submission (v. 21) shape the way you approach relationships—whether in marriage, family, or community?
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Husbands are called to love “as Christ loved the church” (v. 25). What does that practically look like in today’s context?
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Wives are called to respect their husbands (v. 33). What does respect look like in real, everyday ways?
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Whether married or single, how can you personally reflect the love and unity of Christ and the church in your relationships?
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What’s one practical way you can better show love or respect to your spouse (or someone close to you) this week?
Group Challenge
This week, practice Christlike love and respect in one key relationship. Be intentional—whether that means serving your spouse, speaking words of encouragement, or showing humility in conflict. Share with the group next week what difference it made.